The School Run
We leave the house at 8:32am. This is not negotiable. Everything before 8:32am is negotiation.
Isolation, finding your tribe, and navigating dad life socially
We leave the house at 8:32am. This is not negotiable. Everything before 8:32am is negotiation.
There is a dad at the school gate who mentions his son's reading level in conversation the way other people mention the weather.
My home office is also the place where someone has decided to keep a felt-tip collection. These things are in tension.
Making friends as an adult is genuinely hard. Making dad friends as an introverted 44-year-old is like trying to install software on a machine that doesn't know it needs it.
The other dads are 31. I remember being 31. I was an idiot.
Claire has three WhatsApp groups for mums. I have a group chat with two friends who are also dads, and we mostly send each other football scores.
The honest answer is that I kept looking for this blog and it didn't exist. So here we are.